My husband best friend is ruining our marriage

    My husband and his best friend talk literally every day, multiple times.

    I didn’t realize how bad it was until I saw 71 texts and 4 pages worth of calls in less than 12 days on the current phone bill.

    We have been going to counseling in regard to this, and he said it would change, but clearly it hasn’t. His best friend never put in an effort to know me, and is an immature drunk. Everytime they hang out, they get drunk.

    Granted they don’t hang out much, but the way they talk likem they do is unreasonable. I told him they can be friends, but to “tone it down.” He said he talked to him about it, but I doubt he did.