I have come to the realization that the major problem we have in our society is that we don’t understand the true/real/actual meaning of marriage.
That your brother decides to marry a particular girl is because he loves her, because he wants to spend the rest of his life with her, because he wants to build his own family with her.
Your brothers do not get married to bring a nanny for your father or house help for your mother.
It is not your sister in-law’s responsibility to take care of your aged parents! It is not your right ! Shouldn’t be an expectation!
If your brother’s wife decides to do it, let it be from the goodness of her heart and should be appreciated.
And please miss me with that a woman is not married to only her husband but to his entire village bullshit! Toss that manipulative statement out of the nearest window. Ero ! Asa! Big lie!
This is one of the statements the society have used to brainwash and manipulate us women for a very long time !
A woman is ONLY married to her husband. Her relationship with her in-laws or even his entire village , should be determined by how they love, accept and respect her and not by her married to their son.
It is not automatic! It’s not buy one get one free ! It is a relationship, you build it.
A woman can not be married to her husband and two of his brothers that hates her, or five of his other sisters that wants her dead!
I don’t understand how someone’s child will stay in their husband’s house and be expecting another person’s child to take care of their sick or aged parents because they are married to their brother.
For goodness sake, Go and carry your papa, mama or a get bloody paid help, and leave the ‘our wives’ alone let them marry their husbands in peace!